I ended up just getting a 2020 Kia Niro EV. Premium with cold weather package and I'm very happy. Has the heat pump, a much lovelier infotainment screen than I was expecting, heated and ventilated seats, sunroof, heated steering wheel, mood lighting, android auto, pretty much everything I wanted. A bigger battery and AWD would have been nice, but probably would have been pricy anyhow on the Ariya and there's some good deals going around on the Niro. I'll see how this goes for the next 3 years and then see where the EV market is at that point.