Those are odd discrepancies, but the Northern Lights color is currently only available on the Premiere trim so that is probably what was delivered. You should be able to use a VIN lookup tool to double-check if you are worried. The illuminated kick plates and badge are added in port, so it sounds like those may have just been missed. If your dealer is not much help, then you could reach out to Nissan through the phone number in the reservation portal and they will hopefully make arrangements to ship the parts to a dealer and have them installed.
Another feature you can look for to verify that you have ProPilot 2.0 is the ProPilot Park icon and button on the center console above the drawer open/close buttons. I believe that is only included in vehicles with ProPilot 2.0.